The first dynamic in a transformational community gathering is connecting with one another by genuinely relating with compassionate courage. Listen to the podcast interview (part one) in Resource Section.
· Why relating is important - Hebrews 10:24-25
We are all created by God to live in community. It is not good for humans to be alone and we must strive to stay connected to one another. We need to resist the temptation to isolate ourselves, especially when we are hurt or fearful. The lies of the evil one(s) that harden our hearts only work when we are disconnected from community. Our hearts need ongoing encouragement to stay tender and selfless.
We are all created by God to live in community. It is not good for humans to be alone and we must strive to stay connected to one another. We need to resist the temptation to isolate ourselves, especially when we are hurt or fearful. The lies of the evil one(s) that harden our hearts only work when we are disconnected from community. Our hearts need ongoing encouragement to stay tender and selfless.
· How to facilitate relating - Acts 20:28
We, as shepherds, are to be feeding and teaching the flock under our care and make our primary goal to love well. (1 Timothy 1:5, 1 Peter 3:1-5) To be the kind of servant who does not control people out of pride or insecurity, but loves them well, will require us to know the true condition of our people as well as our lives. Are they/we encouraged in heart and united in love - what’s really happening spiritually and relationally? (Colossians 1:28-2:3, Philippians 2:1)
We, as shepherds, are to be feeding and teaching the flock under our care and make our primary goal to love well. (1 Timothy 1:5, 1 Peter 3:1-5) To be the kind of servant who does not control people out of pride or insecurity, but loves them well, will require us to know the true condition of our people as well as our lives. Are they/we encouraged in heart and united in love - what’s really happening spiritually and relationally? (Colossians 1:28-2:3, Philippians 2:1)
· The following two questions are helpful in facilitating the process of relating:
1. How do you interact with others and impact the group atmosphere?
2. How are you helping others participate and see their style of relating?
· Take some time to discuss your personal and relational challenges as you head into 2015. How would you assess the true condition of your life and ministry?
· Haven for the Heart has a two step strategy where we help leaders experience a haven for their hearts and become equipped to be a haven for the hearts of others. We hope that you and your spouse or ministry team will take advantage of a Haven for the Heart retreat. During a Haven for the Heart retreat we will cover in further detail each of the 3 dynamics of the CPR process.
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